7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

We are all adults here and theoretically know that desperate and obsessive behavior to get someone’s attention is unattractive. But the problem is that people do it unconsciously. So, of course, we can say that this does not concern us, that we just love someone so much, but this is a trap.
Usually, people do not realize that they are behaving like this until their partner leaves them. And even then they may not understand why this happened.

So it is important to recognize in time the following 7 signs of desperate and obsessive behavior in a relationship that can spoil everything:

1. You neglect your schedule for his sake.

You expect that he will be free at a certain time or day, therefore you yourself plan nothing. And although it seems good - you find time for him - the problem is that you start neglecting your hobbies and close people. You must make an appointment together, not so that only you will always adjust to it.

2. You go in cycles, analyze and worry about everything that he says and does.

We are afraid of the fear of the unknown, of what we cannot control, because we are trying to gain this control, analyzing everything that is happening around us, believing that we can understand this and influence something. Unfortunately, hyper analysis usually forces us to say and do what our uncertainty shows.

3. You are jealous of his time with other people.

Even when he talks on the phone with his brother for an hour? Or meet old friends without you? If you feel great jealousy over such trifles, this is a problem. And you certainly shouldn't show it to him, because he decides that you are trying to control him, and that is unattractive.

4. He himself says that you do not give him time and space for yourself.

If your partner asks you to give him more space, do so. For the success of any relationship, both partners need the opportunity to relax and recharge far from each other. You can't make him love you more by trying to spend every moment with him.

5. You bathe him in gifts and praise.

It is as if you are trying to prove your love to him and keep him near your hyper-care. And when it seems to you that he is moving away, naturally, you go on the offensive.

6. You expect reciprocity from him.

To be honest with yourself, it is clear that you give him everything to get something in return - be it gifts, praise, or just attention. But this is not unconditional love. And if you don’t feel that he is giving you something in a relationship, maybe you don’t make sense to try.

7. You talk about cohabitation or marriage.

When we feel insecure and we experience that a person can leave, we want to do something to make sure that he never leaves. But imposing the thought of moving together or getting married will only further alienate him.

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    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

    7 signs that you are behaving desperately and obsessively

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