Baby crying before every sleep what to do

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  • gali4ka11/25/2010 at 15:21:55
    The baby is crying before every sleep, what to do?
    Girls, my daughter is 3.5 months old, before every bed she screams terribly, it doesn't matter when to go to bed, during the day or at night, whether to lay her earlier, later, on the chest, with the nipple - she sings every sleep, it becomes blue: (((( wants, but screams. Such a feeling that she is very excited, wants to sleep, but cannot sleep. It turns out to be laid in one way - to wrap in a diaper (otherwise she is all bent while crying), and jump with her on the fitball.
    I have no strength, every laying of a child to sleep is a concert program, and he sleeps anxiously, often wakes up. It happens, you lay it down, and after 15 minutes it wakes up, and after half an hour it whines again to sleep, again I pack it, and again the op is in the house.
    Two neurologists said that the child is completely healthy, one LSS showed that things are not very good, the other - that everything is perfect.
    I do not know what to do anymore, I already have the fear of putting the baby to bed, for 3.5 months she just fell asleep three times, practically without an ora. Slowly pass nerves: (
    • Ancka11/25/2010 at 15:49:25
      We also had this, but the period is now disconnected
      for the night itself even without motion sickness. And this period, also in 3.5 months, we just rocked harder and longer through the cry. Then it happened again when we did massage before the bath and at night. Stopped massages, improved and sleep. I think this is some kind of overexcitation.
      • Diana_7411/25/2010 at 16:32:11
        Dear author, I do not know, I will please you or afflict.
        We started this at 4 months and continues to this day (and we are 8 months old now.) Nothing hurts 100%, but as soon as you take it in your arms with the thought of putting to bed - a concert. Sometimes a terrible tantrum, sometimes just cackling. But without this, we don’t go to sleep. Especially strongly manifested in the evening before a night’s sleep. The explanation is simple - I want to sleep - I can’t sleep. The child is excitable and cannot relax in another way, ors relieve tension. I already treat this philosophically. The main thing for us is not to allow tantrums with reddening, bluing and so on. I hold onto the handles, calmly pull myself to myself and calmly, not paying attention to the op, singing lullaby songs. Recently - 10 minutes. and feeds ... Hold on, take it as a feature of your child. I would not practice swaddling and jumping on fitball, because when this happens mechanical motion sickness, which is not good for the baby ...
        • gali4ka11/25/2010 at 17:02:04
          Yes, I read at Komarovsky,
          that the child is pumped from the rocking, but during these three and a half months I have tried everything, it helps only to jump, she then seems to be quiet, listens and then forgets that you have to shout. : ((
          • Lyuda_Nikolaychuk11/26/2010 at 13:21:51
            here we have a situation
            5 m_s aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa nits "will not. Good luck and patience
    • suboba_111/25/2010 at 21:48:48
      but try the sound of water from the tap, instead of the fitball, it helped us even distract and relax with colic
      • gali4ka11/25/2010 at 21:51:41
        I did not try the water, I turned on the hair dryer, but it calms down for a minute, then I turn off the hair dryer,
        and she starts to scream in the new. try and water, thanks
        • Irene11/26/2010 11:22:12
          +1 for water
          tummy to himself, the faint light from the bathroom into the dark corridor, pump up. Another helped the sling.
    • OlgaP11/26/2010 at 21:48:32
      we, too, 3.5
      How many times a day do you sleep? we, for example, sleep at 9 am 40 minutes, then at lunch on the street from 13 to 15 and in the evening about 30-40 minutes around six in the evening. And all ...
      at night with howling fit about 11like you on fitball, we get up 4 times a night to refresh ourselves and at 7 am we are like a cucumber ready for a new day ... Maybe she just needs to sleep less .... If we are, for example, put in every feeding cry there will be no less than you....
      • gali4ka11/28/2010 11:05:09
        we get more:
        it used to be like this:
        first sleep at 9-10 am 40 minutes
        second dream somewhere in 13 hours an hour or two, when as
        then hours at 4:30 - 5 pm, also an hour, two, when, as - if I didn’t get to bed before, it will sleep longer
        then at 7 pm sleep for 30-40 minutes.
        then swim at 8 pm somewhere.
        then at 9-10 I lie down to sleep at night. Sometimes, if I put it at 9, at 11, she wakes up to eat, and then, as lucky, sometimes she eats and falls asleep, sometimes she can play for an hour more.
        wakes up at night differently, on average 4 times, this is without hovering on the system.
        We will rise at 7:30, together with the father, who is going to work (she sleeps very sensitively, so she wakes up).
        BUT I write this ideally, very often it happens that she wants to sleep, yawns, rubs her eyes, I stack her. she falls asleep, after 15 minutes she wakes up again, I try to pump her up - no, she wants to play, merry, her eyes are burning, we play, but since she didn’t sleep much earlier - then she wants to sleep again, starts to whine again, rub eyes, yawn, then I have to put myself in bed again, becausecrying and in his arms.
        Small again falls asleep. and then ka lucky - or sleep enough, or again a quick rise and soon whining.
        I tried to wear her out, so that she was kindly tired and slept longer, not allowed to sleep, so it worked out even worse, because if she wants to sleep, she whines and whines, she is harder to calm her down, but when I pack her up, she does not sleep much.
        In general, I wait until outgrow.
        Now I started to play with her calmly, not to let her get overexcited approximately before going to bed, no loud musical toys, no kicking and flying))) and I carry her around the house, showing everything that is not bright, I calmly say - I began to yell less. Thu Thu Thu
    • Snowboot12/08/2010 at 11:01:56 PM
      Galyun, we are straight twins
      More precisely kids. At the little son the same began. Here are a couple of days, like, really (not from birth). He eats, and after eating begins to cry, soothe the whole family. Imagine how you feel. For a couple of days I almost turned gray and was already thinking about a bottle so as not to mock a child. Also swayed on the fitball until it burst;))))
      Here we just have a NSG. Maybe you should see another doctor? I already gave two very good coordinates.
      But a friend of another reason the ora said. Quote: "Anfys I was so, at the sight of the chest straight hysteria. I used to find out.It turns out that her stomach sphincter was badly compressed and after eating the milk rose up again, that is, like heartburn, and this is uncomfortable and painful for babies. From here, weeping and giving up the chest. She ate calmly only at night, in a dream. It is a pity, they only guessed this year, when she completely refused to bust. Found out after ultrasound of the stomach with water load. There everything is clearly visible, as the child drinks, and the water comes back: (Talk with a gastroenterologist, can help solve this problem? "
      + I will add, I forgot completely - after the meal I don’t put it horizontally right away, ideally let it lie on an inclined plane, the doctor advised us, at 45 grams.
      And another thought - maybe just sucking gets tired, like in Vladimir with the bridle of the tongue? And the top too, well, where is the upper lip with the jaw connected (inside)? It happens that this little thing interferes with eating :(
      • gali4ka12/09/2010 12:15:10
        hmm, I don’t know, I’ll watch her ... Thanks for the idea ...
        On NSG were already twice.
        The fact is that oh me she is still more or less, it seems to me that she is simply overworked, because I have a daughter - well, purely Whack, Pts nimble and restless
    • mother katya11/27/2010 10:27:26
      usually it goes by itself, wear it on your hands, speak gently, wiggle
      • gali4ka11/28/2010 11:09:02
        and when passes, do not tell me?
        • mother katya11/28/2010 at 23:38:52
          our last screams for no reason remember about 6 months, but then they were devoted to moving to the country.
          Gradually, less and less will cry. and the flow will cease)))
          and would not have taken any action, especially medication.
          Just be with the child, try not to get annoyed. I developed in myself complete peace of mind with such crying, she screamed into my ear, and how it passed through me.
    • asmar11/25/2010 at 15:30:02
      Gal, we have the following reasons for the ora: I want to sleep, I cannot sleep, I want to eat, or something hurts
      if you have eliminated the pain and want to eat, then it remains that I want to sleep, but I can not. You do not overheat it in terms of emotions? TV, music, massage, swimming, active communication ???????? maybe there is something that is very much aroused by her? we have a child a maximum of 3 hours can without sleep, then whims, then op. I try to fine-tune the mode of the day to alternate everything constantly, to prevent screams.
      • asmar11/25/2010 at 15:31:52
        still advised us nevrohehel - this is homeopathy
        Most likely, such anxiety of the child is not good, if the child does not bother with anything, he should not shout, although all the children are different.
        • gali4ka11/25/2010 at 17:04:11
          Flax, small appointed
          Dorkind (the company is the same as Enterokind produces), bought, but the hand does not rise to give a small one, I do not want such a small but to stuff tablets with :(
          • asmar11/25/2010 at 17:27:01
            I know that even moms do soothing seagulls
            only I don’t know at what age they are. Neurocheel himself was appointed, although the small one is more or less calm, here is the dosichpor in buying or not. So I understand you. But if you screamed as you wrote, you probably would have given up.
    • sdandy12/08/2010 at 18:52:57
      the child is overworked by the time you are laid
      try to lay before it seems to you that it is time :) look at the child, he becomes pensive, rubs his eyes - this is already time, just skip - overwork and as a result overexcitement. We had such a thing when we, according to Komarovsky, bathed the child before bedtime. She was very tired, overworked and walked until 12 -2 am, and she herself was a lark, so she always got up at 7-8 in the morning, did not get enough sleep during the night. then she could not fall asleep during the day, because she didn’t rest, and here the daytime events piled on her, hysterically scared before going to bed, and so on for any reason. Changed the mode, moved the swimming in the morning. A child up to a year at night should sleep 10-11 hours, in the daytime from 0 to 6 months 3 times in total for 5-6 hours, 6 months - 1 to 2 times a day for 4-5 hours. And almost all the kids were originally larks, so they usually fit into a night's sleep at 7-8-9 pm maximum.We are in a Komarovsky, at first we kept the child up to our bedtime to sleep .... this is terrible. Now we are putting the little one to sleep according to her schedule and not according to her. Because they have enough for 7-8 hours at night, and she needs 10-12 to rest normally
      • gali4ka12/08/2010 at 18:57:51
        Very likely ... try, thanks.
      • gali4ka12/08/2010 at 22:17:58
        I see you understand children very well in a dream, but can you tell me what to do if
        the child wakes up every 25-40 minutes, not always, but during the day, almost all the time, I read about the fact that the sleep of the children goes 40 minutes in a cycle, and so at the end of virtually every cycle my daughter wakes up:
    • Sunlight11/25/2010 at 17:14:06
      For the little ones, this often happens - they cannot otherwise cope with emotions and sensations during the period of wakefulness.
      If there are no questions on neurology, it will outgrow pretty quickly.
      At bedtime, exclude loud sounds, charging, fun ...
      I had such a daughter, screamed not in my own voice: ((
    • vinny_7911/25/2010 at 17:34:05
      And so it was with us, it is slowly passing (we are now 8.5 months).
      I also connect it with my nervous tension - I am very afraid of this cry, and each time before motion sickness I just freeze in fear that it will now begin ... And then I took a nanny, who obviously is not afraid of it, and the child began quietly fall asleep calmly.
      • asmar11/25/2010 at 19:23:56
        There is something 100% about it, I also noticed as soon as I let the situation go
        how the baby is changing before our eyes. Children feel very state of the mother, that's the result. Gal, maybe you need to look for the reason in yourself? let go of all fears, look and the situation will scream
        • gali4ka11/25/2010 at 19:31:38
          I am for all that time much has been tried. I thought at first that
          that it should be that it is normal. What will pass with time. But this does not pass, and even becomes worse: (
          • vinny_7911/25/2010 at 20:02:21
            And with us it grew from 3.5 and up to 7 months,
            but believe me, children grow up and stop screaming like that, if only because they start playing, crawling, sitting, getting up, etc., they get very tired and sometimes they just cut off from fatigue. Suffer it, I also thought to bypass all the doctors, and it seemed to me that something was wrong with the child.
    • Nataly_N25/11/2010 at 15:48:41
      I want to calm you down
      I want to calm you down. I had this with the eldest (now she is already 6 years old), also started at 3-3.5 months. And I just as you did not know what to do. let her in 5 months. I wrote off everything then (got out at 4 months and 5 months).
      when the youngest was born, everything was super until 3.5 months old - she fell asleep at the breast. And then again, at 3.5 months, the cries began at bedtime, and I knew for sure that she was not hungry and didn’t bother her tummy. And just like with the eldest, everything went by itself in 5-5.5 months (and my teeth got out as much as 6 months).Now she is 6.5 months old, at night she falls asleep near me, and during the day on the pens.
      So I made a conclusion for myself that the kids just need to outgrow it, they just want to sleep, they get tired, but they can't sleep.
      I wish you only patience, I think that everything will be settled by 5-5.5 months.
      • gali4ka11/25/2010 at 17:00:40
        The fact is that we have from birth! Every single day of God is the same: (I hope it really outgrows :(
    • oleshenka09/12/2010 12:31:53
      I'm trying to stick my chest
      if it doesn’t really work out - then a bottle of expressed milk. The bottle quickly drinks, then get tired and can turn off. And the chest - before going to bed, lying in bed a couple of times, smote and falls asleep. And this and that, only if a child is hungry, he will immediately wake up. That is why I give my chest first and then another bottle .... Maybe someone will throw in slippers, but for me this is a way out. On the chest begins to fall asleep, or even yell at all. But I do this only for the night.
      Bridle is also an option, check.
    • alsid200311/26/2010 at 10:24:50
      We have the same story
      it all started at 2 months, when she starts crying, we get dressed and go outside, she calms down and falls asleep on the street, we walk five more minutes, and we return home, it helps one hundred percent, there are night walks too, but eerie op and crying have become less common, Now we are three months old.
      • Diana_7411/26/2010 at 1:04:32
        Tick, add: 100% do not need to think about
        that "now she will start yelling," you should not be afraid of going to bed. The child feels the nervous state of the mother. I sometimes just repeat to myself: Now Anyuta will close her eyes and fall asleep sweetly, and dream about her ... etc. It helps 100 pounds, calms down faster. oh, I don’t know what is being done with it, oh how to calm it down, oh what it is, etc.) - worse by several times. And all mechanical terms: water, hair dryers, fitballs and so on. God is addictive and become a ritual. Everything will be fine! The main thing is calm mother :)
        • gali4ka11/26/2010 at 20:10:46
          Diana, I do the opposite!
          When I'm calm, I rock her, she screams and screams, screams and screams ...
          And when, for example, after an hour of ora I’m already tearing up the roof and I start to roar with her for a couple, then she calms down and starts laughing. paradox. :(
          • asmar11/26/2010 at 21:19:49
            Kapets, you are our poor, she just struggled for an hour with the Shouts, barely calmed down
            she sang songs about good Denis, who sleeps and dreams. Only this and took it.
            • gali4ka11/28/2010 11:10:15
              maybe then she screamed at the weather (we had snow), but that day I thought I would just shoot myself
              mother saved the situation
        • mirela11/26/2010 at 14:13:40
          Tick ​​try not to drink tea
          and drink mint all day long (homemade only, not from the supermarket)
          can help relieve anxiety and bathe the girl in a series
          • gali4ka11/26/2010 at 20:04:14
            In a series of bathe every night, and mint, they say,
            extinguishes lactation, I drank Melissa all this time, until the heartburn started from her, then I switched to Uzvar, but then I canceled it.
            • mirela11/26/2010 at 20:22:00
              didn't notice about lactation - but
              it helps us
              • asmar11/26/2010 at 21:20:29
                I also drink tea with mint, does not affect lactation
    • Katik11/26/2010 14:47:54
      And we, at your age, had this, redistributed.
      Now she can show her off, but only you take her in your arms, she is already making a bridge and falling asleep :)
    • businka7911/25/2010 19:47:25
      Tick, but can it be that she is still hungry?
      Sorry, maybe this is a stupid question, but my kids cried SO much only when they were hungry. I really want to help you, but I don’t know what ((((
      • gali4ka11/25/2010 at 21:50:39
        That kind of thing is not hungry, when I offer breasts - sucks a couple of times and throws, and from the tits 5 streams per meter flies ... what prevents her from sucking? I offer a breast all the time - does not take.
        and thank you for your support!
      • asmar11/25/2010 at 23:39:07
        I also thought, maybe it is really hungry. There was exactly the same situation
        with my sister, my mother also shouted that the child could not be hungry,since how much milk is out of my chest, and as it turned out, the child cries all 3 months, just asked to eat, well, I am silent about the satiety of milk, etc. Of course, if you are at full GW, you do not want to experiment with mixtures, but I would not discard this fad.
        • gali4ka11/26/2010 12:02:41
          it's more like giving up the chest, not hunger.
          If milk is, and the child does not want to suck. Small doesn’t sleep well, even if she ate about 10 minutes ago.
          • vetik11/26/2010 12:24:45
            Oh, we also had this before ...
            I remember when I tremble. when I fell asleep and so screamed, they even splashed some holy water that at least something would help. now that helped us. First, he used to sleep during the day for about 30 minutes and then walked for 3 hours and was naughty all that time. then I began to observe that after an hour and a half of wakefulness, he was already beginning to whine and wanted to doze, so I wrapped him in my bathrobe, so that he would not wake himself with his hands, open the balcony and we sleep in the kitchen with fresh air for 2 hours. on the street (I think you don’t have any problems with this), and in the evening at 5-6, too, as soon as I whimper or lie down with him, or I rock like that, and then we walk to 23. The main thing that I understood is not emotionally overstraining the child.before going to sleep at night, he walks the longest and there are such tantrums, but we swaddle him and dad takes his powerful hugs, the nipple in his mouth and forth. after 10 15 minutes the client is ready. I can't do it, because as I wriggle in my hands, like))) we are less than you for a month.
            • vetik11/26/2010 12:26:30
              I also noticed that he was very much motivated by a mobile,
              on this evening I try not to include.

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