By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

Be sure to read! ”: Stop devaluing yourself by age

"I'm getting late." How many times have I heard these words in my office. And not only in it. Heard from women. And never from men. “It’s already too late for me to study, how can I sit on a student’s bench at 35?” people, I am older than him ”,“ I cannot wear short skirts, they are no longer my age ”.

Age. For some reason, we have three relations with him in our society - “it is already late” or “it is still too early” or age is carefully hidden. So that no one determines that it is too early for you, that it is late

For some reason, we completely lack the concept of “on time”. Everything that happens to us is “on time” because it happens exactly when we are ready for it. To someone love comes along with the fiftieth anniversary, simply because you were not ready for it before, it was not for love.

Someone had no time to study at twenty, because the choice was made in favor of the family and the child, but at thirty-five there is just free time and energy. And someone falls in love with a person younger than himself, because the feelings of a passport are not checked.

Someone did not wear short dresses at eighteen, because he considered himself fat and ugly, and forty suddenly found slender long legs and wanted to show them.

But right there, on a woman who received what she wanted in time, this terrible whisper of “late”, “not of age”, falls on. Where does it sound from? Let's go through the tabloid pages. “Janet Jackson, 50, is pregnant. She gained 43 kg and hides her uniforms under Muslim clothes. ”

What a horror, old, fat and pregnant. And what should a woman become pregnant at 40 or 45 or 48? Abortion? Just because society considers it too old to give birth to a child and scares with all sorts of terrible diseases?

Why no one is happy, does not say "well done, will you give birth to a healthy baby"? After all, medicine now allows you to control and regulate the course of pregnancy. “Anna Sedokova, 34, is pregnant with her third child. Father's name is hiding.Recall: Anna is already raising two daughters from different husbands. ” It's a nightmare too. Not very old, but unmarried, gives birth to children from different men. Still has the audacity to be happy. And do not walk with the face of Mary Magdalene.

Go ahead. “47-year-old Jennifer Lopez spun the affair with her younger musician for 17 years. And she appeared at the Grammy ceremony in a frankly sexy outfit. ” Old, but, contagious, happy, she walks her ass around, and she also started a lover. And if J.Lo in his 47 looks like that, which will give odds to any 20 year old? Beautiful and rich woman. Why should she wear a shroud and Donald Trump's flattering hair and hands in senile pimples will flatter?

And finally, my favorite rubric is the stars on the beach. "Uma Thurman, 45, showed her cellulite, but it doesn’t interfere with her new romance." "Gwyneth Paltrow looks great in her 41 even in a bikini." "And one more" ageless "star Demi Moore in his 54 also wears a bikini." Sorry, but what to walk on the beach, if not in a bikini? Maybe in a spacesuit or burqa?

The mother of three children can not have stretch marks or cellulite? Is it time for Demi Moore to walk through the cemetery, choosing a place and a monument? Or are our beaches filled with the perfect bodies of Mr. Olympia and Miss Fitness Bikini?

And why is this wonderful male age 45 + with a swollen belly, who came to the beach in knitted white family shorts in red hearts, this Valentine's Day belchus doesn’t soar at all that it’s too early, late or not at all? Or this gray-haired old man, who put his hanging ass in a thong?

So with a couple of numbers and a few words you can kill a woman’s desire to live a full life. Do not be ashamed, do not apologize, do not look back.

Tell me, about the experts of age norms and time scales, when is it not too late for a woman to go pregnant, in a transparent dress? Not too late to love, learn, make a career? And cellulite, when can you have it? Does age determine the presence of strengths and capabilities? And why then such a different attitude to the age of a man? Why does a man who marries and becomes a father in 48 all say "Well done, you hoo"? Although the average life expectancy of men is lower than women.

Life is so short. Despite the fact that in the Middle Ages, few lived to 30 years, and now people live to 70, 80 and 100 years. Catch them need much more. And for a woman, this is even more than just “more.”From modern women, society expects to be educated, well-groomed, successful in a career, to have another hobby, preferably two. Do sport.

Keep the perfect home, raise a couple of perfect children, do not forget about her husband. Cook the most delicious and healthy dishes. Cellulite is not. No fatigue. The teeth are white, the skin shines, the hair shines. Wardrobe successfully combined. I did not forget anything? And, and all this should happen by age. But which one? No one will say.

And therefore. Lovely women, show the fact to everyone who whispers “late” to you.

Give birth, love, wear short dresses, learn Chinese, marry a man 10 years younger than you, or not at all. Jump with a parachute, spin a macrame, or become a goodwill ambassador for the UN. Only you know how great your powers and desires are. It is these “I want” and “I can” that are the only criteria on which to rely!

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  • By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age

    By reading, be sure to: stop devaluing yourself by age