Each of us perceives friendship in his own way. Someone is given to her completely, believing that she is akin to love and is given once and for all her life, and someone calls friends even random acquaintances and changes them like gloves, easily breaking friendship ties and quickly forgetting those with whom more recently spent all his free time.
Like many other things, the ability or inability to be friends is due to our zodiacal affiliation. And today Passion.ru tells about how zodiac signs are friendly.
I would like to remind you that people born from the 1st to the 18th are considered “pure” signs, and the rest are influenced by the previous or next sign, both in the personality characteristics and in astrological predictions. And this must be taken into account.
Aries are friends rationally - their friends are either those who can give them something, or those who favorably emphasize their virtues.At the same time, representatives of this zodiac sign can selflessly surrender to friendship: they come to the rescue and are always there at a difficult moment, they share what they themselves have, support any initiatives and conversations of a friend. True, there is one “but” - they do it only as long as it meets the above criteria.
But as soon as a friend begins to overshadow Aries in anything, or ceases to bring practical benefits, he is immediately changed to another. Representatives of this sign do not tolerate useless relationships, as well as foreign superiority, so they can hardly be called excellent friends - it is too difficult to predict when the “X” moment will come, and you will cease to enter their circle of interests. And although after that you may remain in the life of Aries, you can no longer claim to anything more than the status of a close friend.
Taurus friends carefully. They never fully reveal themselves and invariably observe their benefits. It is useless to expect one hundred percent frankness from the representatives of this zodiac sign - there is always something that they hide even from those people who are considered their closest friends.In addition, they love to turn those with whom they are friends into “useful connections”. They understand the commercial relationship, rather than selfless friendship in its purest form.
In addition, Tauruses are stubborn, therefore, to conduct friendly disputes with them and give them advice is unpromising. They never admit their mistakes and will not act as they are recommended, which in turn offends their friends and sometimes leads to quarrels. The only moment when representatives of this sign lose their self-confidence and become more trusting and open is tragic events, but as soon as the situation stabilizes, they immediately close and again keep friends at a distance.
The twins are friends "avidly." But not for long. They take a great interest, literally “fall in love” with some person, try to spend all their free time with him, talk tirelessly about their friendship, enchant and engage in various adventures. But as soon as someone more interesting appears on their horizon, they switch their attention to it, and the former friend simply replenishes the collection of “annoying toys” at best, and at worst gets such a rebuke that comes to life for a long time after the finale of this friendship .
In addition, the Twins do not know how to keep the secrets of friends.They are happy to collect and spread gossip, and this is a sin for both men and women. For representatives of this zodiac sign it is inconceivable to keep in oneself any information, even if they were very much asked to keep it secret. So they are not only impermanent, but also unreliable.
Cancers are friends "silently." They do not swear eternal friendship, but they are always ready, if not to help, then at least to listen. From representatives of this particular zodiac sign, the best “vests” are obtained, in which you can cry and which will surround you with comfort, understanding, sympathy. They themselves are very emotional, so they know how hard it is to hold pain, resentment, irritation, so they will never refuse to be “free ears” and at the same time will not give wise, but useless advice, but simply humanly regret it.
The only minus of friendship with the Crawfish is that they become very attached to their friends and regularly violate their personal space. They can call at an inappropriate hour, ask for you on vacation or to a company in which nobody knows them (a friend for them is a reliable guide to the big world).Representatives of this sign are trying to please your relatives and consider your home their own. And if you don’t treat Cancer as a non-blood relative, his behavior quickly begins to strain.
Lions are on display and very jealous. They are a royal gift of their friendship. In their opinion, those whom they called their friends should be grateful to them for this, and therefore have no right to pay attention to someone else. For them, a friend is a peculiar property that simply must always be at their disposal. However, they give royal thanks for this loyalty — they take care of, help, present expensive gifts, share their life force and their useful connections.
In addition, the Lions all the time demonstrate to others that a particular person is their friend. They emphasize this in conversations, put him next to them at some events, openly declare that they have taken him under their protection. Moreover, always proud, representatives of this sign do not disdain to be the first to apologize to friends, even if they themselves were the initiators of the quarrel.
Virgin mate faithfully.For the sake of a friend, they are ready for many things - selfish with the rest of the people; they will never refuse a request to someone who has been rewarded with their trust and friendly participation. True, at the same time representatives of this zodiac sign subtly (and sometimes quite aggressively) control and manipulate this person. You can be one hundred percent sure that you are dominant in a relationship with a friend, the Virgin, but in fact it always turns out that you are dancing to his tune, and not he to yours.
Virgos are “gray cardinals,” so they gradually, but very cleverly, get rid of those of their competitors in friendship, who, in their opinion, are not worthy to be near their friend. Representatives of this sign know that it is necessary to say that you yourself will not feel the desire to communicate with this or that person, and therefore you should not be surprised if at some point you find that you have only one friend left.
Scales are friends widely and with all. They spread friendly feelings to all others, so it is always difficult to understand who they consider to be their best friend, and who in general really belong to the category of friends. The fact is that the representatives of this zodiac sign do not like to quarrel so much that it is easier for them to call you friend, to show that they completely trust you,and thereby protect yourself from conflict, than to admit that you are unpleasant to them. By demonstrating friendship, Libra makes your world more comfortable, harmonious and calm.
But this does not mean that Libra does not know how to be friends for real. They are caring friends, they are interesting and fun, they do not refuse to help and are willing to sacrifice. In addition, they have no equal in peacemaking affairs - they will skillfully make peace between you and your relatives, with another friend, with your loved one.
Scorpions are friends intricate. With many, they simply play friendship and use these people, and they are very sophisticated, but if they really “choose” someone to be their friend, then they give it all to them. Representatives of this sign of the zodiac can be very generous, and this applies not only material wealth. They give their true friends their wisdom and share their luck with them. In addition, they solve the problems to get rid of which their friend does not have enough courage.
In addition, Scorpio cleverly manipulates the minds of others, and if you are lucky enough to become his true friend, then be prepared for the fact that he will periodically push you to those actions that you yourself would never have decided, but which are to your advantage.Those who are only considered friends of the representatives of this sign often do exactly the opposite - they are also provoked to act, but this is not help, but rather inhumane experiments.
Sagittarius friends generously. For the sake of a friend, they are ready to give the "last shirt", to share a roof over their head, food and social circle. Representatives of this zodiac sign without requests and reminders come to the aid in those moments when it is particularly necessary, important and valuable. True, they require unconditional loyalty. They find it difficult to understand that you can not always appear on the first call, especially if the situation concerns not something serious, but just entertainment. Receiving a refusal, Sagittarius is not offended, they are offended, slandered and even punished by alienated silence.
Nevertheless, it is enough to apologize to them or to show that you need them, as Sagittarius forget about the quarrel and again become your true friend. In addition, they are truly proud of their friends, are willing to protect them even with their fists (this is also characteristic of women born under this sign) and will never betray them, although not all their actions can be considered beautiful.
Capricorns are ineptly friends. If they have a close friend, they do not know how to behave with him - how to show their liking, what to say, so as not to offend. The fact is that mainly in their life there are not friends, but “useful connections”. Representatives of this zodiac sign often prefer to communicate with others as needed, rather than for pleasure. They do not understand why to waste time on emotions and friendly chatter, when you can do business that gives practical results.
They distance themselves from people, hide their feelings and experiences from them, because they believe that if they themselves are not interested in what is happening in the souls of others, then such things should not be worried. However, sometimes Capricorns still let someone in their hearts, recognize that friendship exists, and then you will not find a more devoted being. Even if a representative of this sign is nominally absent, he always knows what is happening to you, and helps at a distance, without expecting gratitude from you.
Aquarius friends detached. They are certainly ready for friends on everything that relies on the “code of friendship” (well, you know, “a friend will not give up in trouble, he will not ask too much ...”), but they do not let their problems pass through themselves.For representatives of this zodiac sign, friendship is a kind of work, which they prefer to do excellently, but they never take “home”.
In addition, these are not the people from whom you can hear in any situation that everything will be fine, consoling tales and words of encouragement are not their role. They would rather hit you in a sore spot than they would feel sorry for and reassure. And the point is not that Aquarius is evil, they just believe that it is their friend’s duty to push you in the right direction so that you don’t ache, but pull yourself out of a difficult situation. They prefer to speak the truth, believing that "if a friend does not say this, then who?" And it hurts sometimes.
Many are drawn to Pisces, so they usually allow themselves to be friends, so as not to disappoint or offend others. But the representatives of this zodiac sign themselves will never be the first to call a person their friend, they are looking for a long time and get used to people. However, if they still admit that someone has become closer to them than just a friend, they will carry friendship throughout their lives, or at least after many years.
Fish come to the aid of the first call (although they will not stir without a request), help out in the most difficult life situations, and skillfully combine the “soul healer” self with the role of a rational “solver” of material problems. They always know what needs to be said to console, and they feel when they just need to keep silent. They react sensitively to the mood of friends, so it’s very comfortable to be friends with representatives of this sign.