The post of this woman about childbirth became viral, and this is why

One blogger has published a powerful post for future mothers. It is no secret that many women are afraid of pregnancy and childbirth, which is completely normal - according to statistics, every fifth person feels this fear.
But for some, according to statistics, 6 out of 100, a condition known as “tokofobiya,” can turn into a real phobia that affects the very decision of a woman to have a child.

In an attempt to reassure those who, for one reason or another, are afraid of childbirth, one blogger wrote a post that collected many likes and reposts. Laura Mazza recalled her own experience, in particular, the birth of a third child.

“Dear pregnant moms, do not be afraid of childbirth. I know horrible stories scare you. I know that if you are the same as I was, you may even be afraid to die during childbirth. Childbirth is a scary word ...

You take a soul and give it life. It is wonderful, but hard work. It is normal to be afraid of childbirth, it is normal to worry about you and your baby. People are the only species that doubts their ability to give birth.

My first birth made me feel vulnerable. I listened as hundreds of women said to me: “But women have been doing this for centuries,” and I thought I failed because the birth was not easy. But it was not a failure. I just forgot about my strength. Because I collected it and returned ready and strong. I used my power.

And you also have this power.

If you want to make a delivery plan for 5 pages, because anxiety covers you - do it.

If you want anesthesia, do it.

If you want to feel everything, because you can - do it.

If you have an injury and you want a cesarean, do it.

You have all the rights to choose how you want to give birth to your child. This is your body, this is your child.

And if things do not go according to plan, you will not fail, you will do your best to have a child safely, and this is an unselfish sacrifice. So you show your love for the child. Never reproach yourself for it. Never. Be strong and ready to do everything for your child.

There is nothing wrong with doing a cesarean. There is nothing wrong with giving birth in a natural way.There is nothing wrong with giving birth in a bathroom or hospital, with or without anesthetic. There is nothing wrong.

Wrong when mother is unjustly condemned.

Ignore convictions. Ignore people who speak only negatively about what they do not know at all, they do not know you, your history and your child.The way you give birth will not change how you will love your child. And the way your child will love you.

You deserve admiration. You raised a child inside you, you gave it life. And whatever your birth is, you did it. YOU!

Childbirth is normal, fear is normal, and you never underestimate yourself, because you are a mother, you are strong. ”




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