If you leave him, you will be proud of yourself.You know that you had to do it: it is not for you, and you are not for it. You will celebrate it with your girlfriends on Friday night, celebrate your new life, make new plans, look forward to new opportunities. You will feel rebirth, a sense of freedom and invincibility. It’s as if nothing can leave you now because you made the right decision.
If you leave him, it will be hard and even painful for you.You will try to rebuild your life and face more changes than you expected. You will forget how to be alone, how to start all over again, how to solve everything yourself. You will have doubts, discomfort of uncertainty. What if you were wrong?
If you leave him, you will regret it.You will beg him to return, to forgive you. You suddenly realize that you can not bring everything back. What is done is done, and now you are here, alone, as you yourself decided. Now the only way out is to go further.
If you leave him, you will learn to be yourself again.You will remember your former hobbies, hobbies, you will get in touch with old friends, you will return to yourself. You will go to work and feel useful. You go to the club and feel sexy. You will remember the life that you had before him, and that you could have a life after it. Another life. Even the best.
If you leave him, you will flourish.You will remember how he restrained you, did not let him be realized. Now you will follow the dream that you once wanted to fulfill, you will go to the future you forgot about because of it. You will understand that it is better for you without him, that everything you said to yourself that it cannot be is a lie.
He is not always the man you love.He is not always a man. It is the personification of every wrong decision that you made for the sake of peace and security, and not desire and passion. What you did for someone, but you knew what you wanted differently. He is all that keeps you from the life that you really want.