1. Feeling not good enough is necessary to become what you should be.
It may sound absurd, but it is a mandatory requirement. When you feel this way, do not deny it. Admit it. Sometimes we tend to adhere to some ideals: we must be such or such - and cannot accept that we really feel not what we should. But do not be a coward. Admit it.
You have to recognize this feeling, because it means what else is there, what to improve in yourself.
2. Choose your thoughts wisely.
In most cases, our main enemy is ourselves. The problem is how you think about yourself, and much more difficult when you let your thoughts take over you. Do not believe everything you think. Because thoughts are just the result of hyperalysis, when you focus on something negative in everything, including yourself.
It is very important to change the way you think about yourself. Focus on the positive. It all starts and ends with a choice.Choose your thoughts wisely, and you will be surprised how this will affect you.
3. Your failures do not determine you.
You define yourself.
When we fail, we tend to blame ourselves. Doubt yourself. Even hating yourself is not good enough. And then you start to believe that you are the most miserable person on earth. But it is not. Don't let your failures determine you.
The scars from them will remain with you forever, but it all depends on you how you will look at them. Let it be the symbols of your power. A sign that you have experienced pain, learned many life lessons and went on. These failures helped you to become better.
Never become a victim of your own failures. Failure is an event, not a person. Go on.
4. Stop waiting for evaluation from others.
When other people make you and your decisions, you feel great. And when they negatively comment something, you feel like a nonentity. It is not worth spending so much time and effort to listen to what other people think about you. You can't please everyone.
Whether you like it or not, people will always find something negative to tell you. Even if you do everything the way they want, they will still find where to find fault.And in the end you will not satisfy either yourself or them. So get away from the thought of how others want you to be. Live the way you want.